She has lost her mother, you’re all she has left, and she realizes that you will be a hot commodity on the dating market. Then while you’re recovering with an ice pack to the scrotum, you can call in your estate lawyer and draw up documents that show her when you finally kick, she will get everything! I hope your daughter has some redeeming qualities. I think I have more self-control than that, but should I get a vasectomy just for my daughter’s peace of mind?Ī: Maybe, to mollify your concerned daughter, you should take her with you when you get snipped-she can grill the doctor to make sure you’re done with sperm production. But she’s worried that something will happen spontaneously, and then it will be too late. I told her that I’ll figure that out if and when I decide to have that kind of relationship with someone. She feels I wouldn’t be prepared for a new child (and I’m sure she’s also thinking of her inheritance). She’s heard stories of younger women taking advantage of older men and sometimes having their babies. My college-aged daughter wants me to get a vasectomy. She is the only person I have ever slept with, but I suppose I wouldn’t necessarily wait until remarriage to have sex again. Daughter Wants Me to Get a Vasectomy: My wife died last year. ( Sign up here to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. An edited transcript of the chat is below. Emily Yoffe, aka Dear Prudence, is online weekly to chat live with readers.

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